#132 | Leah & Dr. Willow: The Words That Make Her Wet - Why Your Sexual Language Matters More Than You Think
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Ever wondered what words light up your partner's desire? In this episode, Leah & Dr. Willow get real about verbal turn-ons that transform intimate moments. They are diving into what women want to hear both inside & outside the bedroom. They're sharing personal preferences while acknowledging everyone's different. Dr. Willow says, "What opens you versus what closes you—that's the most important thing", because what turns on one woman might completely shut down another. They emphasize the importance of curiosity, experimentation, and open communication in discovering what words create the most powerful, arousing, and erotic experiences.
EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:
- Sexual Accelerators vs. Brakes: Discover what ignites desire versus what puts the brakes on arousal
- Taking Back Our Words: How reclaiming terms like "pussy" can be empowering
- The Power of Possession: Why phrases like "your body is mine" can create intense arousal (even for the most empowered women!)
- Beyond Words: How physical expressions of desire (like proper hair pulling and neck holding) complement verbal communication
- Body Affirmation Magic: The transformative power of "word baths" that celebrate every inch of your body
TIME STAMPS:
2:09 Welcome to the "What Women Want to Hear During Sex" Episode
3:18 Exploring Female Desires and Feminist Perspectives
5:01 Sexual Accelerators vs. Brakes: What Drives Arousal
12:54 Decoding the Five Erotic Blueprints
17:12 Reclaiming Power Through Sexual Language
23:03 Why Possessive Words Create Arousal in the Bedroom
27:49 Building Confidence Through Sexual Attunement
29:31 Reading Your Partner's Energy and Responses
33:12 The Transformative Impact of Verbal Affirmations
34:41 Honest Communication About Body Preferences
39:38 Physical Expressions That Complement Verbal Desire
45:23 The Throat-Vagus Nerve Connection in Intimacy
47:52 Balancing Dirty Talk and Tender Pillow Talk
EPISODE LINKS
- Erotic Blueprint Quiz
- Instagram | Sterling Cooper
- SxR Episode #125 | Dr. Anne Tourng
- SxR Episode #20 | Dirty Talk for Beginners
- Book | The Voice, The Vulva, and The Vagus Nerve by Debs de Vries
- Book | The Male Brain by Louann Brizendine
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