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#127 | Patrick Eilers: Your Brain on Porn & the 90-Day Reset That Increases Porn Recovery Success

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In this eye-opening episode, certified sex addiction therapist Patrick Eilers shares crucial insights about porn addiction recovery, early exposure prevention, and rebuilding intimate relationships. With over four years of specialized experience and a master's degree in clinical counseling psychology, Patrick brings both professional expertise and compassionate understanding to this challenging topic.


ESSENTIAL TAKEAWAYS

  • Early Intervention Matters: With children accessing devices at younger ages, prevention and education are crucial.
  • Recovery Is Possible: A structured approach combining therapy, support groups, and lifestyle changes can lead to successful recovery.
  • Partners Need Support Too: Healing requires addressing both individual addiction and partner trauma.
  • Healthy Sexuality Framework: Understanding the 12 dimensions of healthy sexuality is key to recovery.


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 TIME STAMPS:

2:05 Introducing Patrick Eilers: Expert in Porn Addiction  

3:14 The Impact of Early Exposure to Pornography  

6:14 Understanding Porn Addiction and Its Effects  

8:17 Gender Differences in Porn Addiction  

10:24 Challenges in Addressing Porn Addiction  

18:15 Healthy vs. Unhealthy Sexual Behavior  

26:04 Recovery and Support Systems  

32:50 Patrick Eilers' Journey into Therapy  

34:24 Career Journey, Personal Struggles, and Motivation to Help  

35:33 Impact of Overexposure and Parental Influence  

38:32 Treatment Approaches for Porn Addiction  

41:50 Rebuilding Relationships and Disclosure Process  

47:17 Understanding Healthy Sexuality  

50:27 Practical Advice and Final Thoughts  

52:25 The Dish: Discussing Porn Addiction

 

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