#121 | GS Youngblood: Why Nice Guys Finish Last and the Hidden Reason Women Lose Attraction
Are you a good man struggling to find your footing in relationships? Author G.S. Youngblood reveals a powerful truth: many men today are caught in a painful cycle. They want to lead with strength, but anxiety and self-doubt hold them back. When their partners express disappointment, old wounds surface, triggering defensive reactions that erode trust and intimacy. In this episode, Youngblood shares his proven framework for breaking free from the "nice guy" trap without swinging to toxic masculinity. Whether you're a man seeking to show up more powerfully in your relationships, or a woman wanting to understand your partner's journey, you'll discover practical tools for creating deeper connection while maintaining authentic masculine presence.
LEARN HOW TO:
- Stay grounded during emotional triggers
- Express your needs without losing connection
- Create safety while maintaining strength
- Transform relationship conflicts into opportunities for growth
EPISODE LINKS *some links below may also be affiliate links
- GS’s Website
- GS’s Free Gift | The Masculine In Relationship Tool Kit
- GS’s Book | The Masculine in Relationship
- GS’s Book | The Art of Embodiment for Men
- SxR Episode #112 | Damien Dieke
- SxR Episode #95 | Lenerd Louw
- SxR Episode #87 | Alex Mischka
- SxR Episode #68 | Freddy Zental Weaver
TIME STAMPS:
0:00 Welcome & Introduction to G.S. Youngblood
4:50 Understanding Modern Men's Relationship Struggles
8:14 The Impact of Childhood Wounds on Adult Relationships
10:50 Building Trust Through Accepting Disappointment
16:40 Essential Keys to Emotional Connection
22:46 The Power of Masculine Attunement
27:06 Breaking Free from Defense Patterns
31:05 The Three-Part Masculine Blueprint
38:33 Mastering Judicious Expression of Emotions
42:25 Understanding Her World
45:48 Balancing Dark and Light Masculine Energies
49:19 Practical Grounding Techniques for Presence
53:45 Transforming the "Nice Guy" Pattern
58:17 The Dish with Leah & Dr. Willow
1:00:01 Receptivity and Presence
1:06:26 Closing Thoughts & Final Reflections
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